To find out more about the 60 Postcards journey so far, you can read a summary here.
Sunday 15th March is almost here and Mother’s Day marketing fills the shop windows, dominates articles online and generally smacks the motherless amongst us in the face with every single mention. It is a day that is tainted for me since Mum’s death, but one that has changed over the past three years. As much as I hate the fact that I cannot spend the day with her, I feel as though the bitterness is fading.
I was recently introduced to The Daughterhood, which is all about mother and daughter relationships. It was inspired by Natasha when her Mum was diagnosed with a progressive illness and she soon found many other people who wanted to take part in the discussion.
They have just released as a book and you can check out the website where people share stories. I adore the concept and, of course, wish it had been around before Mum passed. But, it was a lovely reminder that we don’t have to stay quiet about those we have lost.
I know this will be a difficult milestone for those who have lost their mum, but what I always find myself repeating is that we need to remember there is no right or wrong on how to feel or what to do on the day.
Perhaps you would like to avoid the world and stay in? Or go out and find a distraction? Whether you are with or without her, Mums should be appreciated and celebrated. Here are a few things that you may want to try this Sunday:
- A Card or a Postcard
If you have lost your Mum I would still recommend writing a card or even a postcard. This has been tried and tested by moi and although it is, inevitably, an emotional task, it can be helpful to get your thoughts written down. You can do this in the comfort of your own home and space, do it with friends or family and in 60 Postcards style, you may even want to leave your Mother’s Day note somewhere special.
Yep, Facebook and Twitter will be flooded with images and statuses of what people are up to on Sunday but, rather than be forced away from our social networking sites, I suggest we create an idea that we can all get involved with. Write a message (include a photo if you like) and send it to my Twitter, Instagram or Facebook…..
- The Meet
This Sunday afternoon I plan to head to a pub in Shoreditch. I will have my phone and laptop on me so that I can be sharing the #LoveforMum messages and you can contact me all day by email. Further than that, if you would like some company and want to join (on your own or with mates) then feel free to email me on email@example.com and I’ll tell you where I will be.
Speak to you next week. Until then have a lovely weekend, enjoy the sun and spoil or remember those Mums.
PS: Stars Charity Concert
My sister, Sarah, was inspired by Mum and her passion for singing to set up a charity concert on 10th April (7.30pm) at Merley House in Dorset. Songs from the stage and screen will be performed by a very talented group of singers and you can buy tickets here (includes a drink on arrival).
All of the proceeds on the evening are going to the children’s charity CLIC Sargent.
Raffle: A huge thank you to Tim, Norma, Raphael (Stylechapel) and Jayne (Home Farm House) who have kindly donated raffle prizes.
If you (or anyone you know) may be able to help with a raffle prize, please drop me a note at firstname.lastname@example.org.
One thought on “Mother’s Day: With or Without Her”
Reblogged this on itonlyhappenstoothers and commented:
Mothers day is just around the corner, literally one day away. I’ve noticed I’ve be trying to avoid all the fuss and thoughts of Mothers day. This has not helped me in way as I feel am pushing myself to not think about her at this time. I see my friends buying Mothers day cards with lovely words and I wish I could do the same, but reading this blog 60postcards.com made me realise I should be celebrating it and remembering her. I love the idea of buying a mothers day card and writing down my thoughts on it, I think I will be doing for the first time. I won’t be able to go and take some flowers either on the day but I will be lighting a candle in memory of her.
Thank you Rachel for your lovely words.